Guidance to improve conversation with Females.

9 tips to approach and communicate with a Girl

Figuring out how to start conversation as a good friends with a girl, can be little confusing for a guy. You want to impress her by showing the best version of yours, but you are confused about how you should go about it. And it's natural to feel the pressure while approaching a female gender.

Thoughts such as, "How do I start conversation" or "What if I say something wrong?" could run through your mind, making you nervous and concious. 

To approach a girl, you should equipped some right ethics and confidence. From this post, we tell you some simple ways to start conversation with a girl and to make a good impression infront of her.

• Introducing yourself to her.

1.  If you are anxious about approaching girls, the best way to feel less nervous is to start short-talk by telling her your name and if she looks at you with interest you can continue to say something about your profession and interest.
2. Try to be confident infront of her and use a funny anecdote to make your introduction livelier.
3. Keep your introduction short and sweet, if you talk too much about yourself, she'll probably feel you are too self-absorbed.
4. Be polite while talking about yourself and notice her body language, whether she's interested or bored.

• Making complements on her.

1. Women love being complimented and that is a plus point for an individual to convey his feelings for her. You should be sincere and courteous in your compliments.
2. You can talk about her attire, nature and attitude towards different elements. Give appreciation for her kindness and be respectful.
3. Keep your compliments impactful and genuine, and use them according to your convenience.
4. Don't do too many compliments, as it can put her in an uncomfortable place if you're just friend, because it might make you needy or insincere in her perception.

• Find common interests that connects you to her.

1. Starting conversation by relating common things in between you and her. Asking a girl about her likes and interest can help you to build an empathy and good image.
2. Don't start to ask her personal questions, but start conversation by asking her recent activities that she enjoyed, the type of food she likes and her hobbies.
3. Connects her likes and dislikes with yourself, and give your personal opinion to her. Whether it was related to movies, musics or fashion.
4. Be a good listener, as girls like guys who pay attention while talking. The more you asks questions to her, the more she'll open up and feel comfortable.
5. Try to find a common bond, and something you are knowledgeable about, that makes your conversation fluent with her.

• Greet her using good pick-up lines.

1. Greeting a girl with a good flirtatious lines is a good way to start conversation. Put on your best smile (not fake) and greet her warmly with a simple "Hello".
2. While greeting you should be very aware about your body posture and voice tone. Be open, relaxed and confident, as it makes a good impression.
3. Most important thing is too make Eye contact with her, as it shows respect and a good humour of yours to her. Be attentive while greeting.
4. Decide your next approach after observing her reaction. If she seems uninterested, change your conversation.

• Criticizing the things that she avoids or dislikes.

1. If you criticize those topics, person, or things that she didn't like, it makes ease for her that you support her and your vibe will match.
2. Yes, it seems non ethical but for the sake of friendship, nothing wrong in doing it.

• Not to be too talkative.

1. Ask her questions and queries and don't be just a chatter box. Listen her patiently and appreciate her talks.
2. Try to be a gentleman infront of her, talk less, observe more, and then give your opinion and advice to her.

• Be a emotional supporter of her.

1. Girls need friends to act as emotional supporter during rough times. To be a good friend of her, give attention to her and listen her perspective.
2. Being vulnerable, means listening to her fears and emotions and being open to talk about yours.
3. Support her also in happy times just to increase her faith and to motivate her.

• Ask her for guidance and suggestions.

1. Asking her for advices builts a better understanding in between you and her. 
2. You may ask for her guidance that will open up a trust for her and she will become more likely to seek you out of her own advice.
3. Questioning her different queries makes her feel special and that's how you should show the importance of her advices.

• Avoid Romantic talks until she permits.

1. The easiest way to destroy a friendship is to be overtly romantic when it is not wanted. It makes a girl uncomfortable and might make her sad because she cares about you as a friend.
2. If the girl seems uninterested while romantic talks, you should step back and apologizes for your audacity. It feels her easy to understand your behaviour.
3. If the girl doesn't feel uneasy from your flirt, then you are okay for that. Just remember that, you should not hurt her feelings.

The above tips is to give an overview about "How to start communicate with a female gender", but apart from this each and every person have their own technique and ideas to approach girls. This article shows you some practices and ethics that can help you for smooth and fluent conversation.

Always keep in mind, that conversation is a two-way process. So keep understand your opposite gender and try to express your feelings accordingly.

Hope you like the article!!